Thursday, February 26, 2009

Love life of a Man?

Well, this is my first Blog. Today was hazy, but not in a dazed blissful kind of way, just tired. Anywho, I'm pretty excited that i only have 3 months of school (really 2 because of spring break). I'm listening to Studio Luv Remix =). Blaaaah, idk what else to say? Oh ! Best tip of the day ( think i should give one of these in every blog )

Tip of the Day: Guys should NOT ask girls for pictures. I mean ask once, you're a tool, but keep asking and then get mad if she doesn't, you're a desperate douchebag. It's really not that serious.

I mean maybe it's just me? I get really annoyed when guys ask for pictures. Its like dude, if I'm about to see you like tomorrow, why do you need a picture? Guys just come up with dumb things. I read Steve Harvey's book about how to think like guys. I learned a LOT. I read that guys basically need sex. No matter if they love the person they plan on spending their lives with, they'll have sex with other women if given the opportunity so they feel "wanted" and "still attractive" and haven't lost their youth and MANHOOD most importantly. According to them, sex has nothing to do with love, nor emotions. To tell you the truth, yeah, it's happened to some of us, where we just needed a physical need to be met and I'll admit, I've done it before and have completely forgotten that it happened because it was just for one thing. I think I'm really noticing how much like a guy I really am. It's actually kinda scaring me? Lol. I mean, I can do something intimate and honestly not care if I talk to that person ever again. I'm not a total Sex & the City Samantha here, more like Miranda when I like guys, Samantha when I have needs, and Charlotte when I'm in a relationship. Miranda is the type who finds a perfectly good guy who does all the wrong things like even mentioning THAT four letter word "LOVE" after only 4 weeks. That is such a turnoff. I'd rather talk about family plan for the guy than talk about love. Don't bring up commitment either, it'll fall into place. NEVER ask how long it takes to fall in love. How can you put a clock on love? It's impossible. As many guys as I've ran through (dating wise), I just know what the whole commitment talk means. If I feel like being mushy, I'll initiate it. It depends. I have a hard time dating good boys. I mean, I know its best for me, but I automatically think they're pushovers, and mushy, and will buy me everything. I don't want a pushover! I want a little bit of a challenge, but be sweet. I know i'm totally rambling. I think i'll get further into THAT conversation in the next blog. Adios for now!

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